A love letter to Cuba

As a sassy five year old, I remember my determination in putting red beads together, one-by-one, on a long, thin thread, for a very well thought out gift for my mother. It had been a few months since she had been away on an extended trip abroad and I missed her terribly.

At the time, I was upset she hadn’t taken me with her. In reality, she was traveling to the United States for the first time, to visit her sister, which she hadn’t seen in eighteen years. It was 1990, in a former communist Romania that was suddenly breathing the sweet taste of freedom. For the first time in decades, Romanians were now allowed to travel to non-Soviet countries, granted you got the visa. In those early days, you were lucky if you received a visa for two weeks for yourself, let alone for other members of your family. It was the first time we found out the lady my mother was occasionally writing letters to was in fact our aunt, not just a friend, and that the “forbidden land” that was America all those years ago, was now a little bit closer.

This is how I imagine Cubans must feel, not having been able to travel to the US for so many decades, and vice versa, Americans not being able to enjoy the beauty of a land that is so close, yet so far away.

In my case, twenty some years later, both my parents and I can now travel anywhere in the world. As a citizen of the European Union, I could go to Cuba anytime; as a US citizen, not so much. It’s an interesting juxtaposition. And yet, I feel incredibly lucky to be able to live this experience, given my country’s tormented political past. Although I was too young to ever know, I understand what living in a fenced isolation must feel like, at least through my parents’ eyes. I also know what it means to take so many comforts of every day life – including what life is like in today’s Romania – for granted. I am now searching for that perfect balance.

And so, what I am mostly looking for in Cuba is meeting its wonderful people. Having traveled so much already, and having interviewed plenty of people that have been there, I know for a fact that it will be a travel experience like none other. For Cubans don’t ever seem to give in to despair. I want to learn from them how to enjoy the simplest things in life, and I want to see the authentic smiles of children’ faces that are content and proud to dance to the beats of Cuban music. I want to spend hours with a guajiro to see what his every day life is and read from the creases on his face some of his country’s history.

I don’t like salsa, and I’m not much of a dancer. However, I know once there, gazing at the sunset on the Malecón, I will have an urge of succumbing to its beats. I want to steal its energy and its happy vibes.


Photo by Erick Steinberg

As I close my eyes, I’m envisioning my sandals eagerly pounding the cobblestone pavements of an architecturally enrapturing Old Havana, swirling the pleats of my summery dress to a fine tune in Hemingway’s finca, sipping a divine mojito, listening to incredible jazz, and smiling at the sight of the brightest, liveliest colors I may ever get to see.

A transformative travel experience is upon me; take me to Cuba, I am ready.


This post was first published on Insight Cuba. I will be taking a break from blogging, during my Cuban travels. Follow me along on Gogobot, Facebook and Instagram

Disclaimer: My trip to Cuba is sponsored by Insight Cuba, the leading provider of legal people-to-people travel to Cuba.  Insight Cuba was the first to bring Americans to Cuba under this provision initiated in 2000. They’ve sent more than 8,000 Americans to Cuba legally. I will be going on the Undiscovered Cuba tour, to explore this fascinating island at its most off-the-beaten-path! 

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  1. dewtraveller says:

    Such a powerful post. I can just imagine how you can connect Cuba to Romania, I think this will be an advantage for you to connect more to the locals. I wish you an amazing trip and I know I will be enjoying it through your stories!

  2. Sy David says:

    Cuba is really unique and is a very rewarding place to visit, especially if you can connect with some locals. For people that have very little materially, Cubans possess so much persona.

    • monicasuma says:

      That is so true. Just came back and that’t what struck me most. People seem to be happy and to make the most of what they have. It’s just so different than any other place I’ve been to. You can feel it everywhere. No one is ever lonely, unlike in so many other parts of the world, where people have so much more but are not happy in the slightest.

  3. Lucy Dodsworth says:

    Cuba is such a fascinating place, hope you have a great time and look forward to reading about it.

  4. That’s one place I really, really need to see, before it changes too much. Have a great time there – I’m sure you will!!

  5. Catherine Sweeney says:

    Your analogy is perfect and certainly makes one think. I’d love to visit Cuba, especially Havana which I imagine to be so interesting, beautiful and sexy.

    • monicasuma says:

      Thank you, Catherine, I appreciate it! Now that I am back, it’s all that I imagined it to be, as I wrote, and more, so much more. Can’t wait to share! Havana is indeed incredibly beautiful and charming, including the architecture that is in decay.

  6. Mark Castellani says:

    As always a heart felt passionate thoughts. THANK YOU for such a beautiful article. We all can’t wait to hear about the actual trip and the pleasure of enjoying the simplest things in life.


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